Honor Your Past

Every second you dwell on the past you steal your future. Every minute you spend focusing on your problems you take away from finding a solutions. And thinking about all those things you wished never happened to you is actually blocking all the things you want to happen from entering your life. Given the timeless truth that holds that you become what you think about all day long, it makes no sense to worry about past events or mistakes unless you want to experience them for the second time. Instead, use the lessons you have learned from your past to rise to a whole new level of awareness and enlightenment.
Life's greatest setbacks reveal life's biggest opportunity. As the ancient thinker Euripides noted, "There is in the worst of fortune the best chances for a happy change." If you have suffered more than your fair share of difficulties in life, perhaps you are being prepared to serve some greater purpose that will require you to be equipped with the wisdom you have acquired through your trials. Use the life lessons to fuel your future growth. Remember, happy people have often experienced as much adversity as those who are unhappy. What sets them apart is that the good sense to manage their memories in a way that enriches their lives.
And understand that if you have failed more than others, there is a very good chance you are living more completely than others. Those who take more chances and dare to be more and do more than other will naturally experience more failure. But personally, I would rather have the bravery to try something and then fail than never to have tried it at all. I would prefer spending the rest of my days expanding my human frontiers and trying to make the seemingly impossible probable than live of comfort, security and mediocrity. That's the essence of true life success. As Herodotus noted so sagely, "It is better by noble boldness to run the risk of being subject to half of the evils we anticipate than to remain in cowardly listlessness of fear of what may happen." Or as Booker T. Washington said, "I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles he has overcome while trying to succeed."

- Robin Sharma
Who Will Cry When You Die?